Dating has become much more difficult these days. People are becoming more picky, and many singles are choosing to live alone rather than in bad company!
Do you want to be one of those people who, every night in cinemas, romantic dinners, bars/cafes, restaurants… try to identify if they are meant to live together?
Then you should follow these tips to avoid disastrous first dates.
Women like men who have a plan. She will understand that you are really interested in her if you take the time to make a specific plan on the day of the date.
Don’t get your hopes up
Don’t expect your date to act this way or that way on the first date. This will only lead to disappointment.
Make an effort to appreciate this girl or boy for who he or she really is, regardless of whether this will lead to a second date or not.
There is always something to learn with everyone you meet. If it doesn’t work out, don’t get frustrated. Just enjoy learning from the experience and persevere.
When you decide to be with someone, you should not try to change anything about their personality.
Be the best you can be!
Your date will appreciate that you have taken the time and made the effort for him/her. Bad breath, too much smell… And your first date ends up in a dead end.
It’s not what you say that counts… but how you say it!
2/3 of your communication is non-verbal, and almost a third is conveyed by the tone of your voice!
Be yourself and be confident, there is no need to play a role.
Have a positive attitude towards your date, be open and communicative. Relax and keep smiling…
Playing a little game of “innocent flirting” is particularly sexy.
Even if it’s just a look, a touch on the shoulder… But always make sure you get positive vibes in return before you go too far.
Always tell the truth
Always be honest about yourself, about your experiences… Especially on the first date, you don’t need to pretend to be someone else.
You will always lose out if you maintain an unassumed false identity.
Many people wonder if love at first sight is a myth… One thing is certain, you will only make a first impression. 80% of women will tell you that 3 dates are enough to determine if a relationship can work or not…
Now you can make a success of your first dates.